What's your opinion?

i absolutely disagree with this article.

how can you go into a relationship with your whole heart and then just simply let it go fully with little attachment? We are humans not "hand and water", i do not think that i have the capability of this abrupt "letting go". Does that make me weak? Does that make me the "loser"? I don't think so. Loss is a part of life that we all have to go through sooner or later. Experiencing loss does not make you a loser on the contrary experiencing loss makes you stronger than before. People are afraid of getting hurt from the loss of attachment but pain is part of the growing process and i think that if you want to live your life, live it fully. If you want to experience a relationship with anyone, don't let the fear that one day you may have to let them go ever make you change how you treat them. I think you should just love him/her with all your heart and be happy.

well then again, i am a romantic idealist so...Your opinions please?